They Just Don’t Understand

A person sits alone in a row of waiting-room chairs, holding documents and looking off to the side. A clock hangs above, emphasizing anticipation. The text overlay reads: “They Just Don’t Understand.” SignAble Vi5ion branding and Leah Riddell’s name appear on the image.

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When people think about employment, they often focus on getting the job.

You apply, attend an interview, get hired, and start working.

For many Deaf people, the experience is much more complicated than that.

The barriers often begin before the interview even starts.

A Deaf applicant may already be wondering whether communication will become the focus instead of their qualifications. Will the employer provide an interpreter? Will they know how to work with one? Will assumptions be made before anyone has a chance to see their skills, education, or experience?

Many employers genuinely want to do the right thing, but uncertainty often gets in the way.

Instead of asking questions and exploring solutions, they worry about communication, customer interactions, meetings, safety, or team dynamics. Sometimes those concerns are spoken out loud. More often, they are not.

The Deaf applicant is simply told they weren’t the right fit.

What many people don’t realize is that getting hired is only one part of the journey.

Once employed, workplaces are full of communication that happens informally. Conversations before meetings. Discussions in hallways. Information shared over lunch. Quick updates between coworkers. Networking opportunities. Mentorship. The relationships that often help people advance in their careers.

Most hearing employees receive this information naturally without even thinking about it.

For Deaf employees, access to those conversations is rarely automatic.

Over time, those missing pieces add up.

Not because a Deaf employee isn’t capable, but because information is flowing through channels that weren’t designed with them in mind.

I’ve spoken with many Deaf professionals who describe feeling like they have to work twice as hard just to stay informed. Not because they can’t do the work, but because they’re constantly working around communication barriers that others don’t see.

And that’s often the problem.

People see deafness.

They don’t see the extra effort required to navigate environments that depend heavily on hearing.

This is one of the biggest lightbulb moments I see during workplace training.

Teams begin realizing that accessibility isn’t just about hiring a Deaf employee. It’s about creating an environment where that employee can participate fully, contribute equally, build relationships, grow professionally, and advance within the organization.

That requires more than good intentions.

It requires understanding communication.

It requires understanding Deaf culture.

It requires recognizing that many barriers are invisible to the people who don’t experience them.

The good news is that these barriers can be addressed.

I’ve worked with organizations that initially felt uncertain about hiring or supporting Deaf employees. Once they understood how communication barriers show up in the workplace, the conversation changed. Questions became solutions. Concerns became planning. Access became part of the workplace instead of something handled after a problem occurred.

That’s where inclusion begins.

Not when a Deaf person gets hired.

When they have the same opportunity to succeed as everyone else.

If your organization wants to better understand Deaf employees, workplace communication, and practical solutions that create more inclusive environments, I provide training to help you get there.

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